Don’t Want Love? Ha….Neither Did I!!!

12 Feb
That Damn Thing Called Love

That Damn Thing Called Love

Initially this blog was about I, “DatingBitch” and my fucked up world in the dating scene. After dates with psycho police officers, flower stalkers, men comparing chicken with pussy, without hesitation I said “NO MORE!!!! I can’t take it!!!!”

I’m not saying it was the fault of the “opposite sex”, not at all. In fact, I was privileged to obtain an unwanted “dick gallery” of over 300 pictures that were sent voluntarily, NOT upon request so I can’t complain, but maybe, just maybe, on those dates I didn’t say or act like a potential future bride, or I didn’t carefully screen my candidates prior to us meeting. Whatever the reasoning might have been, it was an adventure in the dating scene that screamed the beginning of a new reality show on prime T.V.

Now I‘m not a relationship expert, nor do I have a degree in psychology, but if you desperately desire a relationship…then listen closely because I guarantee no matter the color of your hair, (including ginger’s) how many times you’ve been married or kids you have, if you have a job or collecting from the government, if you are disabled or less than intelligent, no matter what your flaws or disabilities maybe,”I”, the “DatingBitch” have the secret, the cure, the manual of love, whatever you may call it “I” can bring you the man or woman of your dreams with my new dating book that I have not yet written but titled “How to Find Your Soul Mate Whether You Want Them Or Not.”

If you DO NOT follow my rules carefully and thoroughly….your love life could take an unexpected turn.

So if you DO NOT AND truly want to have fun without any commitment which concludes a curfew, followed by jealousy, overwhelming demands, the old ball and chain then the non-existent sex the day after the honeymoon, or maybe you made a vow to yourself to stay away from the gender that fancies your romantic desires as I did, then I want to preserve your happiness and perhaps save your life by my two rules for unwanted love:

Rule 1. Whatever you do protect your identity by providing a false name and purchasing a prepaid phone so you cannot be found.
Rule 2. Follow the advice of relationship expert Jenna Marbles who says, and I paraphrase:
If a man/woman approaches you with as much as a wink, flirts and makes an excuse to touch you, asks you on a date or whatever the reason may be, this is your cue to draw your hidden sword and attack revenge against the enemy by giving them the following look….

Exhibit A

Exhibit A

From what I hear, Tthe Look” has an extremely high success rate, but I wouldn’t know because I didn’t apply this cardinal rule. Again if you do NOT want a relationship, whatever you do, DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT make the following face as Jenna Marbles outlines:



If you do smile, as I did, the consequences could be severe!!!

Now if you are seeking your soul mate as I clearly WASN”T and want to fall in love as I clearly DIDN’T, do what I did:

Rule 1. Date as many people as you can. The objective is to become jaded as much as possible!
Rule 2. You must, without a doubt in your mind BELIEVE, “I DO NOT want to date!!! I DO NOT want to fall in love!!! I DO NOT want to get married!!! I just want to be ALONE!!!!!” Repetition is important. Tell yourself this throughout the day. Practice when getting ready in mornings, say out loud during traffic, the key is to feel, imagine and believe you do NOT want love or a relationship because unexpectedly…..


Congradulations… are now in love and you may have found your soul mate. See, if you don’t apply “the look” by Jenna Marbles as shown in Exhibit A, as I clearly DID NOT, then expect the following:

A second date, sex on the fifth date, two weeks later saying “I Love You” and combining ONE residence two months later.

Then when you’re head over heels in love, you will turn to your new love and ask:

“When did you fall in love with me?”

Don’t be shocked if you get the following answer:

“The day we met!!”

So please take caution for what you wish for when it comes to love because if you don’t give “The Look” you may get the opposite as I desired…..LOVE!

And you just may have a new Valentine!!

I Love You Chris!!!!

I Love You Chris!!!!

10 Responses to “Don’t Want Love? Ha….Neither Did I!!!”

  1. Valentine Logar February 12, 2013 at 8:43 PM #

    I love this!!!

  2. Cakes McCain February 12, 2013 at 10:07 PM #

    So happy for you!!! 🙂

  3. crazytraintotinkytown February 13, 2013 at 1:19 PM #

    Me too and I’m glad to hear you’re just using your powers for good!

  4. Cherri February 14, 2013 at 11:40 AM #

    I love how you brought Jenna into this – she is all knowing!

  5. The Conservative Hill Billy February 14, 2013 at 12:20 PM #

    Technology has made it almost impossible to hide from stalkers!

  6. datingbitch February 14, 2013 at 1:11 PM #

    I agree about technology and stalkers, but we can try and preserve our privacy….or not.

  7. firesideramblings February 16, 2013 at 12:17 PM #

    A lot of the stuff you’ve got here looks pretty good, I feel like you make some good points. How would you feel about doing a guest post on another blog. Let me know at

  8. bossymoksie February 20, 2013 at 1:46 PM #

    So glad to see you happy and smiling! Good for you.

  9. hobounivercity March 30, 2013 at 11:41 AM #

    Thank u ms datiingb fer checkin me out im gonna say your a to the point no holds bar writer. Do you work fer the dallas news just wonderin. Im startin a bigger than i imagined ministry of love im the vice president n ceo of the hobo univercity as this world has turned into a bunch of bums i will have special trainin in my facilities. Pl if ur a prayin dating bitch lz pray fer my ministries.i loved ur story ya

    General Hope hillbilliest hobo


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